Full Episode: "Shay Johnson (Ep. 702)" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network

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Season 7 Premiere: Reality star Shay Johnson is no stranger to cameras and conflict, but when it comes to asking for Iyanla's help to mend her broken relationship with her mother and brothers, the work required may be more than Shay bargained for. Watch more of “Iyanla: Fix My Life” Season 7 when it airs Saturday nights at 9/8c on OWN. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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Full Episode: "Shay Johnson (Ep. 702)" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network
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  • OMG!!! I cried and laughed... this is the story of many family.

    Sony PierreSony PierreԺամ առաջ
  • Iyanla is the perfect example of how to be assertive and remain classy.

    Erika WilliamsErika Williams4 ժամ առաջ
  • The brother to brother moment touched me ❤. I hope they can gain a new found closeness after therapy.

    brianna breebrianna bree5 ժամ առաջ
  • Shay might have been Shay but she helped her family

    TheBlizzard ofeightythreeTheBlizzard ofeightythree5 ժամ առաջ
  • Shay is the lady in @kountrywaynes videos. I knew when I watched her in that one video that something wasn’t right with her. It’s so amazing, the people with the most disturbed emotions and problems post up the most “I have the best life” on social media. I pray for healing for all these people. Especially Shay.

    Celebrating LifeCelebrating Life6 ժամ առաջ
  • She (and others) are the reason Ms. Iyanla quit the show. PERIOD. Why can’t we manage our emotions and take constructive criticism? 😫

    KK6 ժամ առաջ
  • It's sad that Shay couldn't experience the level of healing the brothers had.

    It's_WinterfoxIt's_Winterfox7 ժամ առաջ
  • This was a good one

    Brandice DavisBrandice Davis13 ժամ առաջ
  • They're all actually good hearted people.

    BLACK THANOSBLACK THANOS14 ժամ առաջ
  • This woman is so DOPE. Its a shame black people don't appreciate her.

    BLACK THANOSBLACK THANOS14 ժամ առաջ
  • I dont get y joe aint show no emotions wile his wife cried her eyes out

    Southern BelleSouthern Belle22 ժամ առաջ
  • Why didn’t Shay receive the same softness as the men? You immediately complimented them instead tore her down for her outfit! No wonder she was gaurded

    Daleisha BradfordDaleisha Bradford22 ժամ առաջ
  • When she gave them the exercise of what I need you to know if I pause the video to think what would I say to my mother and family if it was me and I drew a blank I couldn't think of anything but when Joey opens his mouth that first sentence I almost started crying because the me that hit the nail on the head

    Sequilla WilliamsSequilla Williams22 ժամ առաջ
  • Stop war in Tigray peoples 🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄🌶🌽🥬🥦🧄

    Alganesh WeredeAlganesh WeredeՕր առաջ
  • Listening to each other that's what's needed

    Night StarNight StarՕր առաջ
  • Woow, 😭😭 Thanks for this, I have learn a lot. God bless you 🙏. Promise to apply it on my family cause we have so much issues going on

    Ruth MwangiRuth MwangiՕր առաջ
  • I hate that Shay didn’t get deep deep😭😭😭, she wasn’t healed healed

    ‘Oma Ngozika‘Oma NgozikaՕր առաջ
  • Can Iyanla please come and help my family because LORD JESUS!!! We need it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    ‘Oma Ngozika‘Oma NgozikaՕր առաջ
  • The harmonious lead beautifully program because karate unsurprisingly tumble an a repulsive bagpipe. unnatural, public car

    Alexandrea HawkinsAlexandrea HawkinsՕր առաջ
  • Shay is being too dramatic. I mean she called Iyanla to fix her and her family's life. Didn't she do research on what the process might entail.... It seems like for her its all about being damatic for tv...

    melissa smithmelissa smithՕր առաջ
  • Shay I can relate to you. I had to learn to listen stop taking everything so personally. The other person might be going through it. It takes to much of time being upset. Forgiveness

    Janice MaysJanice MaysՕր առաջ
  • The brothers....the brothers sharing their emotions really touched my soul. I'm watching this in tears. Iyanla gets people. She just gets people....

    melissa smithmelissa smithՕր առաջ
  • From Shay’s body language while talking to Iyanla, she was defensive and protective and laid back, she had her arm crossed in a defensive/ protective mode

    ‘Oma Ngozika‘Oma NgozikaՕր առաջ
  • I can relate to this family. I see that we are all broken in many more ways than we think.

    CHEICK SACKOCHEICK SACKOՕր առաջ
  • Lol honestly Shay is me in so many aspects lol (same last name it too* what if we’re related)😭 but reflecting back on how I usually respond to my triggers I do so in rage , I constantly see myself having to defend myself because I feel unprotected. The same feeling of unprotection I felt as a child in my family dynamic & through my experiences. It’s not an excuse... we must be held accountable for our actions. Ms. Iyanla made a good point about trusting the healing process. Because often time people like Shay feel the need to control the outcomes of situations due to fear. That’s it. Fear of love , truth , and uncomfortable understanding between one and the people & things connected to them. It’s all new & it stirs something up in us. (Lol me & Shay really could be related )* heavy on the ancestral trauma. I felt the segment on a spiritual level. Conflicting but I am now at a place of receptiveness in life at this moment so this healing even to my own life. I keep seeing comments about Shay being so disrespectful which is rooted in pain , neglect and fear. I pray that Shay is connected with people/resources/healing that she truly needs. And she will overcome this rage & be the woman she really wants to be at her core. Which is “Loving” ♥️🙌🏽💓 This was extremely helpful...

    P JayP JayՕր առաջ
  • The young brother is so broken💔💔

    Nontombi BasheNontombi BasheՕր առաջ
  • If shay did not see this and say i need help and healing she will never heal

    Nontombi BasheNontombi BasheՕր առաջ
  • Stop saying that dad wasn't there, they are both to blame she wasn't a single mother. God, I think black women love saying she's single mothers. Just to feel some type of way.

    Samurai NelsonSamurai NelsonՕր առաջ
  • She was literally one of the MOST disrespectfully selfish people on that show, and now i get why

    Kg BrownKg BrownՕր առաջ
  • This episode is AMAZING! The maturity and vulnerability that these men displayed should be aired during every commercial break of every program. ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!

    La Tosha WalkerLa Tosha WalkerՕր առաջ
  • Wwwwoooo she didnt even give the process a chance! She just went on the ATTACK! Ddaaannnnn... She has ALOT of pain she needs ALOT of work.

    Dione RhodesDione RhodesՕր առաջ
  • Look how negative her mother is about her she didn't say or remember anything positive about her daughter

    Twenty FortressTwenty Fortress2 օր առաջ
  • Iyanla is truly an unselfish woman, a wise woman and an honest Godly women God used everything that she went through to help and heal others

    Twenty FortressTwenty Fortress2 օր առաջ
  • I don’t like how the mom is okay with having issues and hatred towards/with shay but refused to believe that there’s an issue with her sons. That’s sick. It was the “I know have an issue with my daughter but not my sons” for me 🥴 sickening.

    Naturally PrettyNaturally Pretty2 օր առաջ
    • She only felt this way because they never challenged her. Shay always challenged her. They will get better. Trust the process.

      It's_WinterfoxIt's_Winterfox6 ժամ առաջ
  • most times, all the words people need to hear to truly start healing is... "I'm sorry" It's sad people are so caught up in themselves they can't & won't acknowledge their contribution to a situation. Even if you didn't "start it" ... apologize for what you contributed to make the situation bad or worse.

    ʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔʕ•́ᴥ•̀ʔ2 օր առաջ
  • Wheewww chile I cried real tears

    Romantisha HalfacreRomantisha Halfacre2 օր առաջ
  • i was a crying mess watching this!

    NicholeBNicholeB2 օր առաջ
  • The mother is a narcissist. That is all.

    Jai WilliamsJai Williams2 օր առաջ
  • What emjay is saying I said to my mom. We are on a great path today.

    Vincinta MoodyVincinta Moody2 օր առաջ
  • Iyanla reminds me of reifhiki from lion king. Putting people together with the laugh in between. I love it

    Vincinta MoodyVincinta Moody2 օր առաջ
  • Wish we could have her help my mom and I .. when I was on "Rehab with Dr. Drew" she wasn't trying to heal with me or talk about our issues 🥺.. sucks so now we're just distant.

    Cin Renee Vh1Cin Renee Vh12 օր առաջ
  • You know I learned I place a lot of the blame on my mom, when my dad was the alcoholic in the family, and my mom was just trying to hold us together.

    Seni AdekunleSeni Adekunle2 օր առաջ
  • why she dressed like she about to do some woodworking

    Supreme KaiSupreme Kai3 օր առաջ
  • i understand shay because it is a trigger for people that have dealt with neglect like that its a trigger to feel unheard or to be made quiet...

    Faisa MohamedFaisa Mohamed3 օր առաջ
  • This was amazing... I kept getting choked up because I have similar problems myself. I see what I gotta do but it’s hard to take that push 😢

    Dorean KnowlesDorean Knowles3 օր առաջ
  • Whoever is reading this, where ever you may be know that 2021 will be a year of finical overflow your cup will over runneth in the name of Jesus Amen!

    Something For The People MinistrySomething For The People Ministry3 օր առաջ
  • She said why her flowers are dead 😂

    Kershaw BonhommeKershaw Bonhomme3 օր առաջ
  • I love the part with Joe n his wife that was touching

    Kershaw BonhommeKershaw Bonhomme3 օր առաջ
  • Awww I feel bad for Emjay u could tell he wanted sum love from a women by the way he acted toward Amara. Also, that mother shoulda gave Joe a hug too when she gave Emjay a hug becauseJoe is also struggling with her mother too

    Kershaw BonhommeKershaw Bonhomme3 օր առաջ
  • Ofc the dad gunna show them love when he far away

    Kershaw BonhommeKershaw Bonhomme3 օր առաջ
  • I like the fact that the mom was open to do this

    Kershaw BonhommeKershaw Bonhomme3 օր առաջ
  • Shay aint changing any time soon.

    Steven KiyingiSteven Kiyingi3 օր առաջ
  • I wished Shay would have humbled herself through the pain! So that she could get through the process, but honestly it was hard for her to do that because she always felt it was them against her! She didn’t allow Iyanla to get to the point where she could show the family that they are the reason she puts up her guard and defends her self off rip! I hate that! Maybe one day she will look back and see what she was trying to do!

    BeatFacesByBeauti MUABeatFacesByBeauti MUA3 օր առաջ
  • Thank you I needed this 🙏❤

    Sagondra ThompsonSagondra Thompson3 օր առաջ
  • Its so hard for men to express their feelings. I wish they felt more comfortable with it and didn't feel soft for feeling things and for having emotions. It shows strength in a man. Not weakness.

    Mailaina ThroneMailaina Throne3 օր առաջ
  • When the brothers held each other that was deep. We don’t see enough of this with our black men. I love how Iyanla gave them their space to talk off camera. Powerful episode. ❤️

    Life With DeeLife With Dee4 օր առաջ
  • This is so beautiful. Healing is so painful but so worth it.

    Songwriter SageSongwriter Sage4 օր առաջ
  • Beautiful😘❤😍🙏

    Eudora PriceEudora Price4 օր առաջ
  • Shay though was not entirely wrong with iyanla she told her what she could and could not handle and she put her in that situation

    autumn hollidayautumn holliday4 օր առաջ
  • Love this Woman!! Would love to meet her!! Would have been great to speak with her! The Sister needed a good spanking With my Scorpio Mama that wouldn't work lol But shes Beautiful Beautiful Family 😅😅😅😍 Iyanla us Amazing Blessings to All 🙏💖🌹

    Eudora PriceEudora Price4 օր առաջ
  • hi, here is some good news 2,000 years ago God became manifested in flesh(Jesus Christ). He lived the PERFECT life,died as a criminal, & rose like a Lion on the 3rd day. All for me, you, EVERYBODY! why would He do that you ask? because all have fallen short to the glory of God(sin). Because of that we are subject to God’s perfect wrath(hell) & that’s bad, but it makes Jesus sacrifice so much greater. God doesn’t want us to suffer punishment(though it’s very much deserved). So He was willing to suffer for us & that means we can go to Heaven. i hope that you accept this if you will, i don’t want to force it but i just want to tell you:) life is short, go to God while He’s here❤️

    Adut DAdut D4 օր առաջ
  • Shay I hope you will see this comment.I'am not here to point fingers or judge you when I saw you n Ilanya n she was telling how to do things differently n you heard what your brothers said, that was part of the process to hear each.other n how each other feeling n it just went right over your head. You took it like they were attacking you n they were not.They were telling you how they perceived you n how you come across to them n how your actions hurt them. You just went on a attack n it wasn't an attack they was just saying that's their experience with you n you just missed the mark n you felt attacked n you went into a attack mode n you wanted to strike back n that wasn't the case. I'm so sorry that you didn't stay n do your part in healing with your family.If you don't do the work, the work won't do for you. God Bless you n keep you Shay.

    Carrie ScottCarrie Scott4 օր առաջ
  • I love the mediator. she has done a wonderful job. Our family needs a session like this. All my brothers and sisters and my parents need to see this. Iam the black sheep now. just like Shay and I behave like shay too. but iam tyrying to learn and forgive without talking to them . i just try to do what needs to be done be helpful where I can and not try to go for clashes

    Sath SahSath Sah4 օր առաջ
  • This is my first time actually sitting down and watching an entire episode through and through and you cant even be mad at Shay for her reaction . This woman is hurt ...

    Veli RodVeli Rod4 օր առաջ
  • I avoided watching this episode for a long time because I do not like Shay or I should say her attitude. I am happy that I finally watched it and think it was the best thing for her to be absent during because she may have continued to misinterpret the processes and therefore may have disrupted the healing process and progress for her family. They may not have been able to see their responsibility and contribution to her behavior. I truly hope that this healing and commitment they made to each-other continued and that they are all in a better place.

    cabezaXcabezaX4 օր առաջ
  • I see why shay is so dysfunctional you see it in her mother

    Oshee GirlOshee Girl4 օր առաջ
  • I just can't stop crying and I don't know why

    a wa w4 օր առաջ
  • Ooooomy god I love youuuu nakupenda sana dada this is Swahili the enter national African language

    Chance PenalozaChance Penaloza4 օր առաջ
  • LISTEN, I UNDERSTAND SHAY..I ALSO UNDERSTAND THE BROTHERS..BUT WHAT I UNDERSTAND MORE IS THAT THAT IS A STRONG BLACK MOTHER WHO HAD TO TAKE ON THE WEIGHT OF BEING A PROVIDER FOR HER KIDS..THE VERY SAME KIDS THAT HER HUSBAND LEFT HER WITH❗YES, HE CALLED AND TOLD THEM HE LOVED THEM...HE WASN'T DOING ANYTHING ELSE WAD HE? HE WASN'T HOME WITH THEM Dealing G WITH THEIR PERSONALITIES AS THEY WERE MATURING❗HE RAN AWAY...LEFT HER TO DEAL ALONE WITH 3 CHILDREN❗THEY'RE AT AN AGE NOW WHERE THEY SHOULD ACKNOWLEDGE WHY SHE SHOWED THAT TOUGH LOVE OPPOSE TO BEING SOFT AND NURTURING❗SHE DID WHAT SHE KNEW TO DO...HE LEFT HER....AND NOW SHES WILLING TO CHANGE AND LISTEN AND LOVE❗WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES...NOT OWNING THEM IS WHEN THE NEGLECT COMES IN❗💯💯💯

    Da BreadDa Bread4 օր առաջ
  • How do I write to the show??? I would love to work out my family problems!! Or at least show us the path!!

    Clamaria BurleighClamaria Burleigh4 օր առաջ
  • Shay thought she was going to walk in here and play the blame game until it got flipped and she was held accountable for her own actions

    JLPerryTVJLPerryTV4 օր առաջ
  • The Mom is the little girl fighting for significance harboring anger toward the man that left toward the men that left. fighting for significan'ce. I hope she can be vulnerable.

    xiomana xoxoxoxiomana xoxoxo4 օր առաջ
  • oh my mistake i oprahs channel wtf

    Stephanie *Stephanie *4 օր առաջ
  • what a sham this lady is not qualified to do this !! she is a buddy of oprah ridiculous show

    Stephanie *Stephanie *4 օր առաջ
  • Why does iyanla look like gladys knight

    Money ManMoney Man4 օր առաջ
  • Iyanla it's a precious human being

    Starshine WatchdogStarshine Watchdog4 օր առաջ
  • Shay is stuck as a 14 year old emotionally, but she is a product of her mother. Maybe the mother is a product of something that happened to her..so many families are victims of past generations..

    One Love xoxoOne Love xoxo4 օր առաջ
  • Omg, the way she just casually starts snacking on cheetos while arguing with the daughter is so good. Lol

    April-Adele WhyteApril-Adele Whyte5 օր առաջ
  • Why the. Chair so closed to each other

    Ash JayAsh Jay5 օր առաջ
  • You can't help someone that cannot accept what they may have done wrong and can only be right. Narcissist blame everyone else, more concern with how they appear to others/public image, and can never see any flaws within themself. And it comes across that she may be one. She's more upset and concern about looking like a "fool" than healing her bonds with her family. Just leave her alone, because someone is family does not mean you have to keep them in your life. Like I always say "love them from a distance".

    K. S.K. S.5 օր առաջ
  • Lord this was draining to me! She is so defensive and she gets it directly from her mother!

    Rea JenkinsRea Jenkins5 օր առաջ
  • Shay Johnson gurl... you have such a beautiful family! I mean you guys are gorgeous... NOW you need to learn to be quite sometimes. You seem so confrontational.... girl LISTEN damn!

    ajwhite12345ajwhite123455 օր առաջ
  • I cried the whole time watching this show

    Lusy Nunez LunaLusy Nunez Luna5 օր առաջ
  • All I can say is WOWwwww... wish them well

    Family Legacy Trading and ProjectsFamily Legacy Trading and Projects5 օր առաջ
  • Wow the disrespect is real. I would never open my mouth to speak to her I that fashion. God is on her side. I was a horrible mother but a better Grandmother.

    MICHELLE ESCALANTEMICHELLE ESCALANTE5 օր առաջ
  • If you don't say it, we don't play it! Them words hit different

    Fabienne PaulifonFabienne Paulifon5 օր առաջ
  • I would like to see Sky from Black Ink and her two sons on here

    Re_LP TVRe_LP TV5 օր առաջ
  • All Shay wants a soft, emotionally available mom

    hersupremehersupreme6 օր առաջ
  • I really hope healing continues. I know how it feels to not feel loved or important by a parent. And the other children put on a high petal stool. Admitting our wrong is a huge first step,

    Mrs BrockMrs Brock6 օր առաջ
  • I see where Shai gets it from, her mom can’t even admit to say anything

    hersupremehersupreme6 օր առաջ
    • She’s literally denying something she said 😂😂😂. What in the amnesia is going on?

      ‘Oma Ngozika‘Oma NgozikaՕր առաջ
  • Another of example of a mother being left to hold the bag and everything being blamed on her. Its easier to be an absent father than a present mother.

    Deshia H.Deshia H.6 օր առաջ
  • A amazing family I no you can work through this in Jesus Christ mighty Blessed Anointed powerful holy name Amen Awesome Psalm23 PSALM91 IISAHA54 17 John3 16 blessed day and week Amen 💓💓🙏🏿💓💓💓💟💔💔🔥🙏🙏🙏🙏🏾😭⭐⭐💕💕🌷💕💕🌷🌺🌷🌷🌷💗🌸🙏🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏽💔🙏🌼❤️🌸💗🌷🌺🌺🌺💗💕💕💕💕💕💗💗💦❤️🌸🙏🏾🙏💓🙏🏿🙏🏿❣️💟🔥❤️💙💖🌺🌷🌷🌺🌷💯💯💯💯💙💗🌸🌸🌸🌸

    Vivian CadeVivian Cade6 օր առաջ
  • Sha understand ing is zero so sad Lord have mercy Jesus Christ mighty God 💓 JesusChrist amen she needs healing Jesus Psalm23 Mar11-23-26 psalm91 Iisaha54 17 John3 16 blessed day 💛💛💓❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍💖💖🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽💟💟💟💟❣️❣️💟💟💟🙏🏽🙏🏽🔥💖😍❤️💓💯🌹💙🌹🙏🏿❤️😍🔥💟💟❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️🌺🌷🌷💕💗🌸🌸🙏🏾🙏🙏🏿

    Vivian CadeVivian Cade6 օր առաջ
  • I wish I could go on this with my Momma. I dont think she loves me enough to reach out to her. I think my Mom would take it as bashing her for how abusive and torturing she was. She tells me now she is sorry for how she raised me but refuses to reach out to me and keep in touch she calls me on days that are not my birthday and constantly says happy birthday. I quietly remind her it's not my birthday. My Moms a motivational speaker but she very impersonal watching this makes me shake and ache with pain.

    Norman BatesNorman Bates6 օր առաջ
  • Want to watch this but way to many unnecessary ads! 😤

    NoyNoy6 օր առաջ
  • They got a narcissist mother, and if people don't see it, then it's very sad. Narc mother's pick favorites and often with hold attention from some of their kids. She froze when she was about to ask for forgiveness because it is very hard for a narc to do.

    Victoria HunterVictoria Hunter6 օր առաջ
  • Shay is ........ very disrespectful

    Deasia GeorgeDeasia George6 օր առաջ
  • Similar story with many mom' s and daughter's.

    m1twm1tw6 օր առաջ
  • “What it is, is that I’m going to know where she at?!” 😩😩😩 I got scared in that moment. 😂😂😂

    Miranda SimsMiranda Sims6 օր առաջ
  • Oh I’m balling crying 😭.

    TraciTraci6 օր առաջ
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