Full Episode: "Shay Johnson (Ep. 702)" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network
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Full Episode: "Shay Johnson (Ep. 702)" | Iyanla: Fix My Life | Oprah Winfrey Network
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OMG!!! I cried and laughed... this is the story of many family.
Iyanla is the perfect example of how to be assertive and remain classy.
The brother to brother moment touched me ❤. I hope they can gain a new found closeness after therapy.
Shay might have been Shay but she helped her family
Shay is the lady in @kountrywaynes videos. I knew when I watched her in that one video that something wasn’t right with her. It’s so amazing, the people with the most disturbed emotions and problems post up the most “I have the best life” on social media. I pray for healing for all these people. Especially Shay.
She (and others) are the reason Ms. Iyanla quit the show. PERIOD. Why can’t we manage our emotions and take constructive criticism? 😫
It's sad that Shay couldn't experience the level of healing the brothers had.
This was a good one
They're all actually good hearted people.
This woman is so DOPE. Its a shame black people don't appreciate her.
I dont get y joe aint show no emotions wile his wife cried her eyes out
Why didn’t Shay receive the same softness as the men? You immediately complimented them instead tore her down for her outfit! No wonder she was gaurded
When she gave them the exercise of what I need you to know if I pause the video to think what would I say to my mother and family if it was me and I drew a blank I couldn't think of anything but when Joey opens his mouth that first sentence I almost started crying because the me that hit the nail on the head
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Listening to each other that's what's needed
Woow, 😭😭 Thanks for this, I have learn a lot. God bless you 🙏. Promise to apply it on my family cause we have so much issues going on
I hate that Shay didn’t get deep deep😭😭😭, she wasn’t healed healed
Can Iyanla please come and help my family because LORD JESUS!!! We need it 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Shay is being too dramatic. I mean she called Iyanla to fix her and her family's life. Didn't she do research on what the process might entail.... It seems like for her its all about being damatic for tv...
Shay I can relate to you. I had to learn to listen stop taking everything so personally. The other person might be going through it. It takes to much of time being upset. Forgiveness
The brothers....the brothers sharing their emotions really touched my soul. I'm watching this in tears. Iyanla gets people. She just gets people....
From Shay’s body language while talking to Iyanla, she was defensive and protective and laid back, she had her arm crossed in a defensive/ protective mode
I can relate to this family. I see that we are all broken in many more ways than we think.
Lol honestly Shay is me in so many aspects lol (same last name it too* what if we’re related)😭 but reflecting back on how I usually respond to my triggers I do so in rage , I constantly see myself having to defend myself because I feel unprotected. The same feeling of unprotection I felt as a child in my family dynamic & through my experiences. It’s not an excuse... we must be held accountable for our actions. Ms. Iyanla made a good point about trusting the healing process. Because often time people like Shay feel the need to control the outcomes of situations due to fear. That’s it. Fear of love , truth , and uncomfortable understanding between one and the people & things connected to them. It’s all new & it stirs something up in us. (Lol me & Shay really could be related )* heavy on the ancestral trauma. I felt the segment on a spiritual level. Conflicting but I am now at a place of receptiveness in life at this moment so this healing even to my own life. I keep seeing comments about Shay being so disrespectful which is rooted in pain , neglect and fear. I pray that Shay is connected with people/resources/healing that she truly needs. And she will overcome this rage & be the woman she really wants to be at her core. Which is “Loving” ♥️🙌🏽💓 This was extremely helpful...
The young brother is so broken💔💔
If shay did not see this and say i need help and healing she will never heal
Stop saying that dad wasn't there, they are both to blame she wasn't a single mother. God, I think black women love saying she's single mothers. Just to feel some type of way.
She was literally one of the MOST disrespectfully selfish people on that show, and now i get why
This episode is AMAZING! The maturity and vulnerability that these men displayed should be aired during every commercial break of every program. ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL!
Wwwwoooo she didnt even give the process a chance! She just went on the ATTACK! Ddaaannnnn... She has ALOT of pain she needs ALOT of work.
Look how negative her mother is about her she didn't say or remember anything positive about her daughter
Iyanla is truly an unselfish woman, a wise woman and an honest Godly women God used everything that she went through to help and heal others
I don’t like how the mom is okay with having issues and hatred towards/with shay but refused to believe that there’s an issue with her sons. That’s sick. It was the “I know have an issue with my daughter but not my sons” for me 🥴 sickening.
She only felt this way because they never challenged her. Shay always challenged her. They will get better. Trust the process.
most times, all the words people need to hear to truly start healing is... "I'm sorry" It's sad people are so caught up in themselves they can't & won't acknowledge their contribution to a situation. Even if you didn't "start it" ... apologize for what you contributed to make the situation bad or worse.
Wheewww chile I cried real tears
i was a crying mess watching this!
The mother is a narcissist. That is all.
What emjay is saying I said to my mom. We are on a great path today.
Iyanla reminds me of reifhiki from lion king. Putting people together with the laugh in between. I love it
Wish we could have her help my mom and I .. when I was on "Rehab with Dr. Drew" she wasn't trying to heal with me or talk about our issues 🥺.. sucks so now we're just distant.
You know I learned I place a lot of the blame on my mom, when my dad was the alcoholic in the family, and my mom was just trying to hold us together.
why she dressed like she about to do some woodworking
i understand shay because it is a trigger for people that have dealt with neglect like that its a trigger to feel unheard or to be made quiet...
This was amazing... I kept getting choked up because I have similar problems myself. I see what I gotta do but it’s hard to take that push 😢
Whoever is reading this, where ever you may be know that 2021 will be a year of finical overflow your cup will over runneth in the name of Jesus Amen!
She said why her flowers are dead 😂
I love the part with Joe n his wife that was touching
Awww I feel bad for Emjay u could tell he wanted sum love from a women by the way he acted toward Amara. Also, that mother shoulda gave Joe a hug too when she gave Emjay a hug becauseJoe is also struggling with her mother too
Ofc the dad gunna show them love when he far away
I like the fact that the mom was open to do this
Shay aint changing any time soon.
I wished Shay would have humbled herself through the pain! So that she could get through the process, but honestly it was hard for her to do that because she always felt it was them against her! She didn’t allow Iyanla to get to the point where she could show the family that they are the reason she puts up her guard and defends her self off rip! I hate that! Maybe one day she will look back and see what she was trying to do!
Thank you I needed this 🙏❤
Its so hard for men to express their feelings. I wish they felt more comfortable with it and didn't feel soft for feeling things and for having emotions. It shows strength in a man. Not weakness.
When the brothers held each other that was deep. We don’t see enough of this with our black men. I love how Iyanla gave them their space to talk off camera. Powerful episode. ❤️
This is so beautiful. Healing is so painful but so worth it.
Beautiful😘❤😍🙏
Shay though was not entirely wrong with iyanla she told her what she could and could not handle and she put her in that situation
Love this Woman!! Would love to meet her!! Would have been great to speak with her! The Sister needed a good spanking With my Scorpio Mama that wouldn't work lol But shes Beautiful Beautiful Family 😅😅😅😍 Iyanla us Amazing Blessings to All 🙏💖🌹
hi, here is some good news 2,000 years ago God became manifested in flesh(Jesus Christ). He lived the PERFECT life,died as a criminal, & rose like a Lion on the 3rd day. All for me, you, EVERYBODY! why would He do that you ask? because all have fallen short to the glory of God(sin). Because of that we are subject to God’s perfect wrath(hell) & that’s bad, but it makes Jesus sacrifice so much greater. God doesn’t want us to suffer punishment(though it’s very much deserved). So He was willing to suffer for us & that means we can go to Heaven. i hope that you accept this if you will, i don’t want to force it but i just want to tell you:) life is short, go to God while He’s here❤️
Shay I hope you will see this comment.I'am not here to point fingers or judge you when I saw you n Ilanya n she was telling how to do things differently n you heard what your brothers said, that was part of the process to hear each.other n how each other feeling n it just went right over your head. You took it like they were attacking you n they were not.They were telling you how they perceived you n how you come across to them n how your actions hurt them. You just went on a attack n it wasn't an attack they was just saying that's their experience with you n you just missed the mark n you felt attacked n you went into a attack mode n you wanted to strike back n that wasn't the case. I'm so sorry that you didn't stay n do your part in healing with your family.If you don't do the work, the work won't do for you. God Bless you n keep you Shay.
I love the mediator. she has done a wonderful job. Our family needs a session like this. All my brothers and sisters and my parents need to see this. Iam the black sheep now. just like Shay and I behave like shay too. but iam tyrying to learn and forgive without talking to them . i just try to do what needs to be done be helpful where I can and not try to go for clashes
This is my first time actually sitting down and watching an entire episode through and through and you cant even be mad at Shay for her reaction . This woman is hurt ...
I avoided watching this episode for a long time because I do not like Shay or I should say her attitude. I am happy that I finally watched it and think it was the best thing for her to be absent during because she may have continued to misinterpret the processes and therefore may have disrupted the healing process and progress for her family. They may not have been able to see their responsibility and contribution to her behavior. I truly hope that this healing and commitment they made to each-other continued and that they are all in a better place.
I see why shay is so dysfunctional you see it in her mother
I just can't stop crying and I don't know why
Ooooomy god I love youuuu nakupenda sana dada this is Swahili the enter national African language
LISTEN, I UNDERSTAND SHAY..I ALSO UNDERSTAND THE BROTHERS..BUT WHAT I UNDERSTAND MORE IS THAT THAT IS A STRONG BLACK MOTHER WHO HAD TO TAKE ON THE WEIGHT OF BEING A PROVIDER FOR HER KIDS..THE VERY SAME KIDS THAT HER HUSBAND LEFT HER WITH❗YES, HE CALLED AND TOLD THEM HE LOVED THEM...HE WASN'T DOING ANYTHING ELSE WAD HE? HE WASN'T HOME WITH THEM Dealing G WITH THEIR PERSONALITIES AS THEY WERE MATURING❗HE RAN AWAY...LEFT HER TO DEAL ALONE WITH 3 CHILDREN❗THEY'RE AT AN AGE NOW WHERE THEY SHOULD ACKNOWLEDGE WHY SHE SHOWED THAT TOUGH LOVE OPPOSE TO BEING SOFT AND NURTURING❗SHE DID WHAT SHE KNEW TO DO...HE LEFT HER....AND NOW SHES WILLING TO CHANGE AND LISTEN AND LOVE❗WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES...NOT OWNING THEM IS WHEN THE NEGLECT COMES IN❗💯💯💯
How do I write to the show??? I would love to work out my family problems!! Or at least show us the path!!
Shay thought she was going to walk in here and play the blame game until it got flipped and she was held accountable for her own actions
The Mom is the little girl fighting for significance harboring anger toward the man that left toward the men that left. fighting for significan'ce. I hope she can be vulnerable.
oh my mistake i oprahs channel wtf
what a sham this lady is not qualified to do this !! she is a buddy of oprah ridiculous show
Why does iyanla look like gladys knight
Iyanla it's a precious human being
Shay is stuck as a 14 year old emotionally, but she is a product of her mother. Maybe the mother is a product of something that happened to her..so many families are victims of past generations..
Omg, the way she just casually starts snacking on cheetos while arguing with the daughter is so good. Lol
Why the. Chair so closed to each other
You can't help someone that cannot accept what they may have done wrong and can only be right. Narcissist blame everyone else, more concern with how they appear to others/public image, and can never see any flaws within themself. And it comes across that she may be one. She's more upset and concern about looking like a "fool" than healing her bonds with her family. Just leave her alone, because someone is family does not mean you have to keep them in your life. Like I always say "love them from a distance".
Lord this was draining to me! She is so defensive and she gets it directly from her mother!
Shay Johnson gurl... you have such a beautiful family! I mean you guys are gorgeous... NOW you need to learn to be quite sometimes. You seem so confrontational.... girl LISTEN damn!
I cried the whole time watching this show
All I can say is WOWwwww... wish them well
Wow the disrespect is real. I would never open my mouth to speak to her I that fashion. God is on her side. I was a horrible mother but a better Grandmother.
If you don't say it, we don't play it! Them words hit different
I would like to see Sky from Black Ink and her two sons on here
All Shay wants a soft, emotionally available mom
I really hope healing continues. I know how it feels to not feel loved or important by a parent. And the other children put on a high petal stool. Admitting our wrong is a huge first step,
I see where Shai gets it from, her mom can’t even admit to say anything
She’s literally denying something she said 😂😂😂. What in the amnesia is going on?
Another of example of a mother being left to hold the bag and everything being blamed on her. Its easier to be an absent father than a present mother.
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I wish I could go on this with my Momma. I dont think she loves me enough to reach out to her. I think my Mom would take it as bashing her for how abusive and torturing she was. She tells me now she is sorry for how she raised me but refuses to reach out to me and keep in touch she calls me on days that are not my birthday and constantly says happy birthday. I quietly remind her it's not my birthday. My Moms a motivational speaker but she very impersonal watching this makes me shake and ache with pain.
Want to watch this but way to many unnecessary ads! 😤
They got a narcissist mother, and if people don't see it, then it's very sad. Narc mother's pick favorites and often with hold attention from some of their kids. She froze when she was about to ask for forgiveness because it is very hard for a narc to do.
Shay is ........ very disrespectful
Similar story with many mom' s and daughter's.
“What it is, is that I’m going to know where she at?!” 😩😩😩 I got scared in that moment. 😂😂😂
Oh I’m balling crying 😭.